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[kyoshi]

dave where were u yesterday night?!

i'm going to implement, no wings nights unless dave is there lol

[dmogx]

probably no wings night unless cagemaster is there.. because if cagemaster is there, dave would be there

[dave31]

dave where were u yesterday night?!

i'm going to implement, no wings nights unless dave is there lol

Lol, you're in dire need of a drinking buddy aren't you? I was having dinner with both my parents and hers. FUN FUN FUCKING FUN.

[melonvitara]

i wanna go for sushi

i am hungry now
i want sushi too

[Pennyville]

well i guess i have to admit that asian girls are harder to please when it comes to materials. Dont get me wrong its not that we believe money > love.( at least i dont ). Love is what we seek, just that we seek more. And i think for a lot of the girls, they're so used to that lifestyle provided by their parents. Their mom uses Hermes and Chloe bags and buy them LVs and Burberry when they're 15. They honestly think it isn't such a big deal when their bf buy them sth like that. However, its a really big deal if their christmas or birthday gift is under 600 bucks! 

One big issue is that girls like to compare. Amongst a bunch of girl, you would hear things like,
" ohhh that's a nice bracelet"
" yeah my boyfriend got it "
" oh really? how sweet.."
" yeah he got it at HR. it was $$$$$"

1) dont call the girl shallow, this is how girls like to brag. << just imagine your gf buying you a 5000 dollars turbo, you'd brag too >>
2) the girl feels loved when their man buy them what they like ... and most girls like expensive stuff..
3) when you hear sth like that from your friend, you'd sit down and think.. how come my bf never get ME anything? and spend all his money on his car but not me?

Girls are a little more complicated. Kev's right tho, there ARE girls out there that dont care. you just gota find the one with the same value as you.

[Ice_GT]

My fiance and I have a system that sort of works. If she wants to spend $1000 on bag, I'm allowed to go out and spend $1000 on anything I want. And vice versa. So, at the end of the month, when we look at our finances, we've suddenly dumped $2000 instead of $1000 on useless toys. Since we're both trying to save money, it's mutually beneficial not to go out and buy expensive crap because it will always end up costing both of us twice as much. She doesn't buy many bags anymore and I haven't modified my car. But we have saved a lot of money over the years by always considering how our spending impacts each other.

 

that's a nice method


must have been fun spending the $1000 on anything you want eh? haha

[Pennyville]

No, he's not allow to ! He bought lunch and he need to save money! kekeke

cagemaster!

My wife says the same thing, though I never listen.  Then she goes out and buys a $150 purse.  Now that's a waste of money.

and NO, its not because of me. Somebody needs to keep up with his plan on buying a house, and the house wont' be under my name   lol


and yes a $150 purse is cheap, you should go home and compliment your wife! lol

[Pennyville]

My fiance and I have a system that sort of works. If she wants to spend $1000 on bag, I'm allowed to go out and spend $1000 on anything I want. And vice versa. So, at the end of the month, when we look at our finances, we've suddenly dumped $2000 instead of $1000 on useless toys. Since we're both trying to save money, it's mutually beneficial not to go out and buy expensive crap because it will always end up costing both of us twice as much. She doesn't buy many bags anymore and I haven't modified my car. But we have saved a lot of money over the years by always considering how our spending impacts each other.

 

that is a nice way, but i have to say, it'd only works if you'd been with the girl for a very long time and if you're both saving for a common goal, such as getting married.

[dave31]

My fiance and I have a system that sort of works. If she wants to spend $1000 on bag, I'm allowed to go out and spend $1000 on anything I want. And vice versa. So, at the end of the month, when we look at our finances, we've suddenly dumped $2000 instead of $1000 on useless toys. Since we're both trying to save money, it's mutually beneficial not to go out and buy expensive crap because it will always end up costing both of us twice as much. She doesn't buy many bags anymore and I haven't modified my car. But we have saved a lot of money over the years by always considering how our spending impacts each other.

 

that's a nice method


must have been fun spending the $1000 on anything you want eh? haha

It's been a while....

[dave31]

My fiance and I have a system that sort of works. If she wants to spend $1000 on bag, I'm allowed to go out and spend $1000 on anything I want. And vice versa. So, at the end of the month, when we look at our finances, we've suddenly dumped $2000 instead of $1000 on useless toys. Since we're both trying to save money, it's mutually beneficial not to go out and buy expensive crap because it will always end up costing both of us twice as much. She doesn't buy many bags anymore and I haven't modified my car. But we have saved a lot of money over the years by always considering how our spending impacts each other.

 

that is a nice way, but i have to say, it'd only works if you'd been with the girl for a very long time and if you're both saving for a common goal, such as getting married.

It is better for long term relationships and most couples are barely comfortable talking about money, never mind trying to control each other's spending.

[Ice_GT]

well i guess i have to admit that asian girls are harder to please when it comes to materials. Dont get me wrong its not that we believe money > love.( at least i dont ). Love is what we seek, just that we seek more. And i think for a lot of the girls, they're so used to that lifestyle provided by their parents. Their mom uses Hermes and Chloe bags and buy them LVs and Burberry when they're 15. They honestly think it isn't such a big deal when their bf buy them sth like that. However, its a really big deal if their christmas or birthday gift is under 600 bucks! 

One big issue is that girls like to compare. Amongst a bunch of girl, you would hear things like,
" ohhh that's a nice bracelet"
" yeah my boyfriend got it "
" oh really? how sweet.."
" yeah he got it at HR. it was $$$$$"

1) dont call the girl shallow, but this is how girls like to brag. << just imagine your gf buying you a 5000 dollars turbo, you'd brag too >>
2) the girl feels loved when their man buy them what they like ... and most girls like expensive stuff..
3) when you hear sth like that from your friend, you'd sit down and think.. how come my bf never get ME anything? and spend all his money on his car but not me?

Girls are a little more complicated. Kev's right, you just gota find the one with the same value as you.

i have no complaints about girls being materialistic, i just see it as how guys would spend just as much on their cars, and / or even on themselves too

so it's pretty equal

[Ice-520]

I don't have complaints as long as she understand that I have to spend too and make reasonable requests

[mzr 2.3 disi]

well i guess i have to admit that asian girls are harder to please when it comes to materials. Dont get me wrong its not that we believe money > love.( at least i dont ). Love is what we seek, just that we seek more. And i think for a lot of the girls, they're so used to that lifestyle provided by their parents. Their mom uses Hermes and Chloe bags and buy them LVs and Burberry when they're 15. They honestly think it isn't such a big deal when their bf buy them sth like that. However, its a really big deal if their christmas or birthday gift is under 600 bucks! 

One big issue is that girls like to compare. Amongst a bunch of girl, you would hear things like,
" ohhh that's a nice bracelet"
" yeah my boyfriend got it "
" oh really? how sweet.."
" yeah he got it at HR. it was $$$$$"

1) dont call the girl shallow, but this is how girls like to brag. << just imagine your gf buying you a 5000 dollars turbo, you'd brag too >>
2) the girl feels loved when their man buy them what they like ... and most girls like expensive stuff..
3) when you hear sth like that from your friend, you'd sit down and think.. how come my bf never get ME anything? and spend all his money on his car but not me?

Girls are a little more complicated. Kev's right, you just gota find the one with the same value as you.

What ever happened to girls going out and bragging about how their boyfriends/SO made them eggs benedict and vanilla soy latte while they were arising from their slumber then followed by a nice candle lit bubble bath where the dude washes her hair and gives her a nice gentle thorough scrub down.  Towel her dry and leads her to the bed where the scent of aromatherapy oils burn and fills the room to aid in her relaxation while he warms massage oils in his palm before commencing in an hour long full body massage followed by 2 hrs of foreplay where it leads to your 'o's and not his because it's about you and not him.  Cuddle and share stories in bed before you both head to the shower together.  Get dressed and soft kisses with the exchange of 3 little words before heading out to meet your friends to share this story?

Holy crap!!  Actually, that sounds like tooooo much work.  I think going to HR to pick up a bag is way easier.  Yay to how society has progressed to what is considered norm nowadays.  Gives me more time to work on my car I guess.    

mzr

My 'old school' theory cannot be bought.  She will not bump into a friend that has the same (story) bag, necklace, bracelet or what-have-you.  Unless if I so happen to be banging that friend of hers.

[kyoshi]

lol mike, that's hilarious man

[dave31]

well i guess i have to admit that asian girls are harder to please when it comes to materials. Dont get me wrong its not that we believe money > love.( at least i dont ). Love is what we seek, just that we seek more. And i think for a lot of the girls, they're so used to that lifestyle provided by their parents. Their mom uses Hermes and Chloe bags and buy them LVs and Burberry when they're 15. They honestly think it isn't such a big deal when their bf buy them sth like that. However, its a really big deal if their christmas or birthday gift is under 600 bucks! 

One big issue is that girls like to compare. Amongst a bunch of girl, you would hear things like,
" ohhh that's a nice bracelet"
" yeah my boyfriend got it "
" oh really? how sweet.."
" yeah he got it at HR. it was $$$$$"

1) dont call the girl shallow, but this is how girls like to brag. << just imagine your gf buying you a 5000 dollars turbo, you'd brag too >>
2) the girl feels loved when their man buy them what they like ... and most girls like expensive stuff..
3) when you hear sth like that from your friend, you'd sit down and think.. how come my bf never get ME anything? and spend all his money on his car but not me?

Girls are a little more complicated. Kev's right, you just gota find the one with the same value as you.

What ever happened to girls going out and bragging about how their boyfriends/SO made them eggs benedict and vanilla soy latte while they were arising from their slumber then followed by a nice candle lit bubble bath where the dude washes her hair and gives her a nice gentle thorough scrub down.  Towel her dry and leads her to the bed where the scent of aromatherapy oils burn and fills the room to aid in her relaxation while he warms massage oils in his palm before commencing in an hour long full body massage followed by 2 hrs of foreplay where it leads to your 'o's and not his because it's about you and not him.  Cuddle and share stories in bed before you both head to the shower together.  Get dressed and soft kisses with the exchange of 3 little words before heading out to meet your friends to share this story?

Holy crap!!  Actually, that sounds like tooooo much work.  I think going to HR to pick up a bag is way easier.  Yay to how society has progressed to what is considered norm nowadays.  Gives me more time to work on my car I guess.   

mzr

Ever thought of writing the romance novels they sell at Shoppers Drug Mart? That was so erotic.

[Username]

well i guess i have to admit that asian girls are harder to please when it comes to materials. Dont get me wrong its not that we believe money > love.( at least i dont ). Love is what we seek, just that we seek more. And i think for a lot of the girls, they're so used to that lifestyle provided by their parents. Their mom uses Hermes and Chloe bags and buy them LVs and Burberry when they're 15. They honestly think it isn't such a big deal when their bf buy them sth like that. However, its a really big deal if their christmas or birthday gift is under 600 bucks! 

One big issue is that girls like to compare. Amongst a bunch of girl, you would hear things like,
" ohhh that's a nice bracelet"
" yeah my boyfriend got it "
" oh really? how sweet.."
" yeah he got it at HR. it was $$$$$"

1) dont call the girl shallow, but this is how girls like to brag. << just imagine your gf buying you a 5000 dollars turbo, you'd brag too >>
2) the girl feels loved when their man buy them what they like ... and most girls like expensive stuff..
3) when you hear sth like that from your friend, you'd sit down and think.. how come my bf never get ME anything? and spend all his money on his car but not me?

Girls are a little more complicated. Kev's right, you just gota find the one with the same value as you.

What ever happened to girls going out and bragging about how their boyfriends/SO made them eggs benedict and vanilla soy latte while they were arising from their slumber then followed by a nice candle lit bubble bath where the dude washes her hair and gives her a nice gentle thorough scrub down.  Towel her dry and leads her to the bed where the scent of aromatherapy oils burn and fills the room to aid in her relaxation while he warms massage oils in his palm before commencing in an hour long full body massage followed by 2 hrs of foreplay where it leads to your 'o's and not his because it's about you and not him. Cuddle and share stories in bed before you both head to the shower together.  Get dressed and soft kisses with the exchange of 3 little words before heading out to meet your friends to share this story?

Holy crap!!  Actually, that sounds like tooooo much work.  I think going to HR to pick up a bag is way easier.  Yay to how society has progressed to what is considered norm nowadays.  Gives me more time to work on my car I guess.    

mzr

My 'old school' theory cannot be bought.  She will not bump into a friend that has the same (story) bag, necklace, bracelet or what-have-you.  Unless if I so happen to be banging that friend of hers.

Is that even possible?

Great story LOL

  Kev

[Pennyville]

It is better for long term relationships and most couples are barely comfortable talking about money, never mind trying to control each other's spending.

Very true... darn i'm kinda bad, i think i'm still at the age where i like beautiful things
but good thing is im never uncomfortable to talk about money with my other half.

I don't have complaints as long as she understand that I have to spend too and make reasonable requests

very true. to me, i like my man to be happy and be spoiled with what he likes too, so i'd try to buy him whatever he likes.
but meanwhile, i'd tell him not to spend any money on stuff he likes cuz he needs to save up...

and then when he DOES buy sth for himself, i'd be tell hiim to stop buying things! if you're going to spend money, at least spend it on me! hahaha ok j/k on this one.

[Pennyville]

What ever happened to girls going out and bragging about how their boyfriends/SO made them eggs benedict and vanilla soy latte while they were arising from their slumber then followed by a nice candle lit bubble bath where the dude washes her hair and gives her a nice gentle thorough scrub down.  Towel her dry and leads her to the bed where the scent of aromatherapy oils burn and fills the room to aid in her relaxation while he warms massage oils in his palm before commencing in an hour long full body massage followed by 2 hrs of foreplay where it leads to your 'o's and not his because it's about you and not him.  Cuddle and share stories in bed before you both head to the shower together.  Get dressed and soft kisses with the exchange of 3 little words before heading out to meet your friends to share this story?

you're good! lol
hahah you might be surprise, a lot of guys have never thot of that stuff.
Last time we had candles and bubble bath.... I BOUGHT IT! 

[mzr 2.3 disi]

What ever happened to girls going out and bragging about how their boyfriends/SO made them eggs benedict and vanilla soy latte while they were arising from their slumber then followed by a nice candle lit bubble bath where the dude washes her hair and gives her a nice gentle thorough scrub down.  Towel her dry and leads her to the bed where the scent of aromatherapy oils burn and fills the room to aid in her relaxation while he warms massage oils in his palm before commencing in an hour long full body massage followed by 2 hrs of foreplay where it leads to your 'o's and not his because it's about you and not him.  Cuddle and share stories in bed before you both head to the shower together.  Get dressed and soft kisses with the exchange of 3 little words before heading out to meet your friends to share this story?

you're good! lol
hahah you might be surprise, a lot of guys have never thot of that stuff.
Last time we had candles and bubble bath.... I BOUGHT IT! 

And he went out and bragged to all his bfs.  Same pile, different $#!t ... or was it the other way around?

Think about it fellas.  Eggs $0.30 ea, toast $0.10 slice, "Awe...that's soooooo sweet, I wish I had a BF like yours (and all of them thinking: stupid bitch, she doesn't deserve a man like that, I can't wait to jump his bones the next chance I get) priceless!!

mzr

sign up for my MC, I'll give you good rates.

[Ice-520]

lol, cooking is definatly a plus, and cheap too