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« Reply #21 on: October 07, 2005, 01:35:28 PM » |
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DOH!!? Should've never given you my home phone number?  well, it's been nice knowing y'all 
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« Reply #22 on: October 07, 2005, 01:42:33 PM » |
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« Reply #23 on: October 07, 2005, 06:37:14 PM » |
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However, I would strongly suggest that if you only do one thing -- make sure that it is "I shall listen".
Actually this one, this is one thing you should do ... if you dont want to do it, at least be able to make her think you are doing it ... then it should also be ok for a while ... i kid i kid ...
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« Reply #24 on: October 07, 2005, 07:00:13 PM » |
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Other additional questions:
Do you find you are going into more debt with her around than without her around?
in regards to that question if ur losing money from being with a chick then thers some issues that u need to work out lol cuz if ur spending too much money on her then that materialistic also could be known as shes using u to buy her shit lol... i dono i guess it depends on the situation
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« Reply #25 on: October 08, 2005, 01:57:15 AM » |
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but when u have a gf and for example go out for dinner wont u pay for her? ofcoz not ALL the time but most?
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« Reply #26 on: October 08, 2005, 02:05:51 AM » |
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Jonno, no matter how much advice we give you, you're still a young-in. Ain't gonna learn shit until you live it.
My dad always told me countless things about life/love etc. I thought he was a moron. Now I see myself saying the same shit to my little cousins.
Enough words can't make up for living it. Don't worry, you might trip, but you got plenty of buds to pick you up and dust you off.
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« Reply #27 on: October 08, 2005, 02:08:51 AM » |
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Oh also, if you do like her and plan to be with her for a while ... don't use all your best stuff right away. eg: 1st valentines, dont go all out ... 1st birthday dont go all out ... otherwise, you'll have to keep matching yourself and do something even more special the next time around hahaha But its alrite, my gf is really understanding so she won't mind about this stuff ... hope you guys can find one too! Desi: lets hear some of the girls side of the relationship and what they think!!! 
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« Reply #28 on: October 08, 2005, 02:26:55 AM » |
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but when u have a gf and for example go out for dinner wont u pay for her? ofcoz not ALL the time but most?
no no ur right in that flowers, dinners, movies are ok but i mean thers some ppl who just keep buyn their gf pointless shit... i knew a kid like that once and i was like... man u gotta buy shit to keep her happy? or to keep this going? thats weak...
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« Reply #29 on: October 08, 2005, 02:31:53 AM » |
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ook so yeh if in ur case then i have to agree with u 
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« Reply #30 on: October 08, 2005, 02:26:06 PM » |
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dates to remember, besides the usually birthdays, etc.:
1. the first time you meet each other (and do remeber what she was wearing) 2. your first date (and location) 3. your first kiss 4. your first in-bed session
If you are efficient and the above four dates all happended on the same date, then there is only one date to remember instead of four !!!!!
Hahaha! Amen to that. BTW, the 2 and 3 could very well be on the first date. And if a girl goes to bed on the very first date, I would wonder if she is the right one for me (if you guys know what I'm talking about).
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« Reply #31 on: October 08, 2005, 02:49:44 PM » |
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Another thing...? when you are listening to her (or pretending to, in Afr's case), do NOT stare at her boobs.? This is from frist hand experience.? I've been told that this is very rude (and not just by my wife either)? 
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« Reply #32 on: October 08, 2005, 05:33:10 PM » |
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« Reply #33 on: October 09, 2005, 03:04:02 AM » |
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Another thing...? when you are listening to her (or pretending to, in Afr's case), do NOT stare at her boobs.? This is from frist hand experience.? I've been told that this is very rude (and not just by my wife either)?  LMAO!!? omg, so funny!? yea, we don't really like that.? I think it is very important in a relationship to communicate.? I know when i was younger, if i felt there were issues I wouldn't dare bring em up cuz i didn't want to 'rock that boat' but that is the worst thing you can do.? it usually just ends up boiling and bubbling inside and then the relationship goes to shit in one way or another.? i think that is number 1...communication and honesty no matter what.? Another thing....don't take your partner for granted or visa versa.? i think this tends to happen when couples have been together for awhile.? They get comfortable with each other and then sometimes don't appreciate each other.? Also, i don't know what it is like for other girls out there, but i think it is the little things that are the sweetest.? for example, when my boyfriend and i decided that i was going to move in with him into his existing apartment, he built me a shelf for all my girl stuff!!? needless to say, I was impressed.?
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« Reply #34 on: October 09, 2005, 11:57:42 AM » |
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but when u have a gf and for example go out for dinner wont u pay for her? ofcoz not ALL the time but most?
Yes, I would pay for her almost all the time, In the begginning. It's not that she's expects me to, or that i'm loaded ( cuz i'm not), but it's just something I do. As the days went on, like of course I don't pay for everything, like bascially whenever we would go for a drink or to eat, she would pay sometimes as well.. so it kinda alternates, like she'd take up the entire bill or i'd would. for a sidenote, Paying for dinner or whatever, won't really kill your wallet THAT much, but when you go clubbing and buy drinks :p that's a whole different story.
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« Reply #35 on: October 09, 2005, 11:59:45 AM » |
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Another thing... when you are listening to her (or pretending to, in Afr's case), do NOT stare at her boobs. This is from frist hand experience. I've been told that this is very rude (and not just by my wife either)  haha tony.... you are truly... THE MAN!
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« Reply #36 on: November 15, 2005, 02:39:44 PM » |
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Another thing... when you are listening to her (or pretending to, in Afr's case), do NOT stare at her boobs. This is from frist hand experience. I've been told that this is very rude (and not just by my wife either)  . Hahahaha, i think i missed this. Tony i didnt expected this from you. You are a ladies man, how could you get caught doing this? You should like the stealth ninja in these matters. lol So tony did you tell you wife about these encounters or did it slip your mind. lol 
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« Reply #38 on: November 15, 2005, 05:01:56 PM » |
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I did play it long time ago and after about 10 times, i won.
I felt sooo good. It was like i have accomplished something really big. lol
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« Reply #39 on: November 16, 2005, 09:27:21 AM » |
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I can't put forth advice as I'm not the typical girl that you guys describe within this thread.
but i will say that communication is key as well as honesty no matter how bad it may be. At least you can say you were truthful as opposed to a liar.
And like Kev said - you are young and you need to experience it to live it.
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